1. When you're sleeping, and you just happen to wake up, he is staring at you. If he can just lie there and watch you sleep, 9 times out of 10, that's a tell tale sign that he is in love with you. You know that feeling when you buy something new and it's sitting still, and you just look at it like My God, I love this new bag. You're in awe that you could own such a glorious item. Guess what ladies? It's the same thing men do when they watch you sleep.
2. When he looks into your eyes, he sees a future with you. Everything about his future involves you. Whatever plans he makes, involves You!! He already talks to you about the future, he has mentioned marriage many times, and he sees himself with you in the very far future. That is love and commitment mamas.
3. He has introduced you to everyone under the sun. Everyone in his family, his friends, his pets, his work colleagues, everyone knows who you are. Even if, they haven't met you YET, they have heard so much about you from him. A friend of mine- Tyra, had been with her man- Seb for a long time. It was her birthday and her family members and friends were present. I noticed she hadn't introduced Seb to the family and I asked why and she said she wouldn't like to introduce him to the parents and a few months later, they are not together anymore. Do you know what I'm getting at here? Even though she was with Seb for so long, she knew that there was no future. Seb was NOT in Tyra's future and therefore, she wasn't going to waste her time and effort introducing him to her family when she knew he would never be a part of her family. Men follow this same pattern. If the person is not going to be there in the future, why waste time introducing them to the family? So, if your man has introduced you to all his friends, brothers, sisters, parents and everyone else in between, girl, you got yourself a winner!
4. When he leaves you, he misses you immediately. You know he's just left your house, but he's already calling you and sending you sweet messages, telling you how much he misses you and can't wait to see you. That is love!!
5. When you are so sick and you can't even move, he comes over and attends to your every need. That is very important. Us ladies, don't even do this for our girl friends sometimes, so when your man is so concerned when you're ill and he's there right away, taking care of you, you know he loves you girl.
6. Finally, this is the Killer!! This is how you differentiate between if he is really in love with you or if you're just a jump off. When you are on your period and you can't get physically intimate with your man, he still wants to come over. Ladies, you know how we are when it's that time of the month. We get moody, crazy and we are seriously PMSing. If your man is man enough to ignore all these things and he still wants to come over, see you and spend some time with you, you know he is madly in love with you.
(Let me know what you think ladies and men too. This is from real men and many women agreed with it. If you got anything to add, please do.)
Note: All the characters I use in my blog are actually real people, but for confidentiality and anonymity, their names are changed.
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