Relationship doctor is always here for you.
Now, these are the 5 things I have collated by speaking to men, women etc
1. Always wear HEELS!! Yes, girls whenever you see your man, get out those red hot 6 inch heels and pop them on!! Your man loves the way you strut from side to side and that great amount of sex appeal and confidence it adds to your aura. I don't know about you but when I got my heels on, I feel sexy, confident, like nobody can get in my way and my man has said to me that he loves the way I stand in my heels, it does it for him.
So, girls save the Uggs and flats for cinema dates with your girl friends.
2. "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach". You've all heard it, so better believe it bitches! Now, I want you to understand something. You may know how to cook pasta 18 different ways but is that relevant? Maybe!! The key here is- learn to cook what your man LOVES to eat. You know how to cook what you like, but you gotta learn to cook what he likes. What he loves. Obviously, it's nice to go out to eat once in a while but every man's dream is that sexy smart girl who throws it down in the kitchen WELL!! So, mamas, learn what your man loves to eat, how he likes it and get used to cooking for him without him asking. He would appreciate you cooking Pounded Yam and White Soup for lunch as opposed to spending £250 pounds on some oriental meal you can't pronounce. That's if he likes white soup.
Remember, you gotta learn his favorite. (Do the washing up after....haha)
3. Take a keen interest in his life, work and hobbies. Now, a way to make your man feel good is when you show him you listen to him and you're interested in his other life affairs. If your man is a producer or in the entertainment industry, learn something about the business, get involved. If your man is a die hard Arsenal fan, girl try and keep up!! Sit with him while he watches the game. You don't have to go all "Go Arsenal, Man U are wankers" (Even though true). You don't have to do that, just join him in his support. If he's gonna have the guys over to watch the game, automatically you think "Bummer, I'm gonna leave you guys here then"....Er, NAH!! That's one less day you spend with your man. So, NO!! Stay around, fetch them drinks(as proud as we ladies are, we have to submit to the man sometimes and take on the role as house wife and hostess. Sometimes, you should do the unthinkable for your man. When you got have your own ladies night too, your man should be man enough and caring enough, to serve you guys and maybe even do the dishes after. SERIOUSLY!! Love makes you do crazy things and a lasting relationship means you're committing to these things baby..) and stick by your man when his team is losing and celebrate with him every time they score. A goal = a kiss. Important thing to note is, do not go crazy on it.
4. Independence. You need to have your own life, your own friends and most importantly, your own MONEY!! Okay, here is where I feel very accomplished (I ooze independence, ladies). I have a couple of friends that can never ever spend a dime on their man. They expect him to pick up everything and I mean everything. It really does disgust me. It's like what? Does he earn a living for you? Gosh, there is nothing more annoying than a dependent woman. And there is nothing sexier than a woman that can take care of herself. Show your man that you want him BUT you do NOT need him. He's a choice not a necessity. Don't stick to him like glue. ALWAYS make time for the girls, ALWAYS do!! Because, when he's not around/when he leaves, you will suddenly have all the time in the world for them and you will regret all the times you stood them up. Pay your own bills, and sometimes, it's nice for the man to hear you say "It's cool, I got it, I got it". This way you ooze this independence, power, sexiness and it makes him want to do more for you.
5. Now, you fall in love with someone for their personality and the way they are but at first sight, what draws you to them is their external appearance. I.E when he saw you he said "Damnnn that chick is fine". Well girls, that day he met you, you were 65kg, 5'8, you had your human hair extensions in and girl, you looked fly. But now, you weigh 87kg, your hair looks like a mop, you don't wear any make up and you look like his grand mother's best friend. Yes love, don't get too comfortable. He loves you, but he also needs to stay attracted to you so his eyes don't wander outside for shallow reasons. So, show him that he's got the best thing he can find out there, in here already. WORK IT BABY!!
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